Dated, July 2007

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• Monthly Mentor - The Coffee Shop of Make-Believe
  
• Perspective - Declare Your Independence
  
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Monthly Mentor - The Coffee Shop of Make-Believe

Welcome to the segment I like to call, Sugar For My Coffee!

Here we discover the individuals with whom this author would be most honored to sit across from and enjoy a coffee break. I close all my writings with this entrance into The Coffee Shop of Make-Believe to introduce my readers to another Success Mentor for life empowerment. That person's presence at the table would be Sugar For My Coffee!

Our guest today in the Coffee Shop: John Di Lemme

Hi everyone,

Today marks the start of something very big.

It's been building up for months.

Over 75 of the biggest names in the personal success industry have lined up to help a formerly clinically diagnosed stutterer.

Go here to see who is behind this historic event:

http://findyourwhy.com/fly/?go=5087

John Di Lemme overcame his challenges to shock the world and to become a legendary speaker and a giant in his field, changing thousands of lives with his amazing message of strength, persistence and personal power.

How did he do it?

He found his "why."

And now John shocks the world again by giving you over $9,200 in bonus gifts when you order his book, Find Your Why and Fly.

This man does nothing halfway, so when he told me about his book launch I couldn't wait to join in, plus all the proceeds go to charity so everybody wins in this.

I urge you to go and get the book, stake your claim to any or all of the bonuses you like, and start believing that anything's possible!

Those of you who are familiar with "Sugar For My Coffee" know that you can join us for this coffee break any time you like. Simply grab a cup of coffee, pull up a chair and get to know our guest. Through cyberspace technology and the click of a mouse, go now and get to know John Di Lemme.

For more about me visit here.

Did someone say, "Pass The Sugar, Please"?

This is the area of our newsletter where we grow in our life and relationship enrichment.

It is July, and as you know, July 4th is the celebration of Independence Day here in the United States. With this in mind, I wanted to make this issue about breaking the chains that bind us and declaring our own independence.

What do I mean?

Have you ever been around people who just can't seem to think about anything that originates above the waist? I call it gutter thinking. They turn every conversation into a sensual conversation.

Another example is the way so many men struggle against the influences and pull of the magazine racks of scantily clad women. They just can't seem to walk by without feeling and giving in to the tug.

These are only a couple examples of the entrapment to lust and desire that dominates our world.

People come back to my message over and over again. Many use the information I share in my ebooks and on my site for mind renewal. Because of this, I decided to post a few of the quotes found in the message of my ebooks and website here for easy access.

Hope you find them useful,

Stan

Here you go!

• We have made sex more about recreation than about relationship and more and more are getting caught in the web of deception that chasing desire creates.
  

• It is better to be wanted for a lifetime of nights and not just a night of a lifetime.
  

• "Turning-on" may be elevated over and over again in the world around us, but "tuning-in" is where it is really at.
  

• Women are more than full-of-brandy eye candy and toys-for-boys and should be valued as pillars in the community instead of pillows for the community.
  

• What we lead with is what we are valued for. If we lead with the body, we are valued for the body. If we lead with the mind, we are valued for the mind. If we lead with the spirit, we are valued for the spirit. What do you want to be remembered for?
  

• Relationships that sizzle are established on the lifetime and celebrated with the nighttime. Getting this backwards is what throws many couples off and one reason why so many relationships fizzle.
  

• We have been seduced by an over-emphasis on the bedroom and the body.
  

• One of the greatest deceptions of our time has been embracing the belief that the nighttime is the ultimate goal of relationship. The ultimate goal of relationship is the lifetime. Until we once again regain this understanding and make lifetime the pursuit in relationships we will continue this vicious cycle of recycling.
  

• In too many minds the URGE has replaced the MERGE in importance.
  

• Many have made sex more about recreation than relationship and recreation sex may be better spelled - WRECK creation.
  

• We are making sex more about passion than promise and drowning in a sea of recreational sex.

Hi again everyone!

I came across a quote recently that impacted me when I read it. It stated,

It was the confession of a Youth Pastor speaking about the style of dress young ladies embrace these days.

The quote came from a book I have added to the library of influence we are developing for our children as they grow. The book is titled, "Sexy Girls - How Hot Is Too Hot?"

It really helps clarify that how we women dress is like marketing and image consulting. How we dress tells the world who we think we are. This is a must read for all of us. If you can't find it in your local bookstore, I even found a website about it. Go to this link and discover How Hot Is Too Hot?

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