"Hey Stan, me and some of the other guys are going to a Gentlemens Club and want you to come along. Just note, saying no is not an acceptable response."
Such were the ramblings of a young man who thought I, like a lot of other men around us on that same work project, would jump at the chance for this kind of night out with the boys.
Knowing he wasn't familiar with my message that teaches all about being a REAL man in a playBOY world, I just laughed at him, said no thanks, and then politely directed him to my website. Although he never asked again, I couldn't just let his question go.
So I went there!
No, not the Gentlemens Club!
I went to that place in my mind that attempts to make sense of a commonly accepted term that has no rational explanation for why it is so commonly accepted.
When I think of the word "gentlemen", I never associate it with a smoke-filled room full of men drowning in a sea of flesh, being enticed to accept a cheap imitation for the gift of human sexuality.
The word GENTLEMEN to me is a word about being noble and respectful. It speaks of one who gives honor and bears the trademark of not demeaning in value the worth of another.
When we're talking about men and their ideas on love, sex and relationships, "Where are All the REAL Men and REAL Gentlemens Clubs," I found myself asking.
Wouldn't it be great to have a club where REAL men go to:
Now, that's the type of Gentlemens Club this loving husband and father would be most happy to go to with the guys. I think guys could learn a lot about being a man in this type of environment. How about it men, care to come along?
by Stanley J. Leffew
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