Our Site, Our Mission
For all the fans of our message from around the world and the many friends of our site who wonder how this site came to life, this page is for you.
I still remember the sharpness in the voice.
Definitive, authoritive and one accustomed to commanding and leading. Yet strangely, it was still warm and inviting.“Space…the final frontier.
These are the voyages of the Starship Enterprise.
It’s five year mission:
To explore strange new worlds…
To seek out new life and new civilizations…”
For years this monologue was heard weekly as Capt. Kirk and the Starship Enterprise captured the minds of millions for another one-hour saga with their ongoing mission “to boldly go where no man has gone before.”
The shows were all different, yet they all had the same underlying message when observed carefully.
Years later, I still see the same clear underlying message anytime I allow myself to become intrigued enough to watch a few moments of one of their voyages.
What is the message?
Any lack of involvement of the Star Fleet Command in their mission would have lasting negative effects on the quality of life within the galaxy.
Did you ever see this message as you watched?
In other words, they couldn’t just do nothing and hope for the best. They couldn’t just bury their head in the sand and hope the galaxy wasn’t effected.
They had to take an active role.
Not a Trekkie
No, I’m not a Trekkie!
That’s not what this is about!
But like so many others, I did find this underlying mission thought provoking and interesting.
We see the underlying mission of this site the same way.
You see, in this ongoing journey we all call life, misinformation abounds. When misinformation abounds and is met with silence, the quality of our life is effected and confusion reigns.
There is so much misinformation affecting our lives today. This is especially true in the area of relationships and human sexuality.
What are some examples of this misinformation we see popularized in our world?
- Relationships are all about the bedroom and the body
- “Girls Gone Wild” actions are where body dignity is found
- Relationships are more about “turning on” than “tuning in”
- Human sexuality is more about recreation than relationship
- Human sexuality is more about the urge than it is the merge
- Being full-of-brandy, eye candy and toys-for-boys is where women get their value
- Being wanted for night of a lifetime is of greater value than being wanted for a lifetime of nights
You don’t have to look very hard to see how this type of misinformation is influencing our lives.
The effects of this misinformation are widespread. To just sit and do nothing and hope for the best will not help. We believe we need to take an active role, thus the idea for this site was born.
Not a Techie
As the idea for this site was born, we immediately realized there was a problem.
While we knew we had a unique perspective about building relationships, website building was a different story. I wasn’t sure it could be done without investing countless hours learning about all the technical things that make websites work, like HTML, search engine optimization, submitting to the search engines, site hosting, meta tags, etc.
As I researched this, I found out that several ordinary people were getting great results with a program called SiteBuildIt!
The results of this system are nothing short of amazing, yet it’s so simple even 14-year olds were succeeding with it.
As I read their stories, I knew this was the answer.
With it working for so many others, it could work for us, too.
And there are a couple more very good reasons why our mission and this site working is important to us.
Not a Tikie
Like many other families all across the world, the pitter patter of little feet grace our home.
With two little tikes of our own, we know all too well that the watercolor pony paintings secured by magnets on our refrigerator doors will all to soon ride away.
Little legs and feet that crawl suddenly become little legs and feet with tippy toes reaching up to turn on a light switch for the first time.
Little voices saying their first words suddenly melt your heart with a “Tony” winning performance of an entire song without missing a lyric.
All those wonderful stages of a child’s growth reflect the wonders and beauty of this thing we all call life.
But children do not remain little tikes forever. They grow up and have to sift through all the garbage of confusing misinformation themselves and make their own decisions.
Our site and our mission is for them!
Yes, it’s an ongoing challenge, but the quality of their lives and their futures demands it.